I'm not sure what the big deal is about virgins. We all were at some point, and let's face it: your first time was probably just as awkward and clumsy as mine. I was smart enough to do it with a fellow virgin, thereby reducing the embarrassment of screwing up. At least he had no idea what he was doing either.
Since my first virgin, I did tread into those waters a few more times. I had a blind optimism that virgins are easier to train. And I suppose they are, but they only know what feels good for the two of you. There is no, "Wow, what was that?" in their repertoire. It's all guess work. A lot can be gleaned from serious make-out sessions, but god-forbid they be fluent in modern American porn...
Virgins are, for most sexually experienced people, sacred territory. Sex is powerful. It is as close to another human being as you can be without giving birth to them. People tend (not always, but often enough) to become terribly attached to the person they lost their virginity. Either that or they become terribly attached to the act itself. I have been witness to some very sweet girls going the slut route after they lost their cherries.
On the whole, my philosophy on virgins is that they practice on each other. Why anyone, Muslim or otherwise, would want 72 virgins is beyond me. Totally inept in their own bodies, no idea how to please themselves, let alone another person, and terrified of making a wrong move.
Please, someone, tell me I am wrong and narrow-minded. Tell me that you have had amazing sex with someone who'd never done IT before. I haven't. I have had sweet, gentle, timid, loving sex with virgins. They are always willing learners, but after that first time, they are no longer virgins.
Besides, they always make me feel like a criminal - even when they do give it up freely.
